Collars for Fashion and BDSM

Collars for Fashion and BDSM

Why do people wear collars for fashion?

People wear collars for fashion because they can add a stylish touch to an outfit and enhance its overall aesthetic. Collars can come in various shapes, sizes, and materials, and can be worn with different types of clothing such as shirts, jackets, and dresses.

Collars have been a popular fashion accessory for centuries and have evolved over time to reflect changing trends and styles. In some cases, certain types of collars are associated with specific subcultures or fashion movements, such as the studded leather collar often worn by punks or the peter pan collar popular in vintage and retro fashion.

Additionally, some people wear collars as a form of self-expression or as a symbol of their identity, such as with the use of personalized name or initial necklaces. Ultimately, wearing a collar for fashion is a way for people to showcase their personal style and add an element of interest to their outfits.

How are BDSM and collars connected?

In BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism), collars are often used as a symbol of ownership and submission. A collar can be worn by a submissive partner as a sign of their commitment to their dominant partner and their willingness to follow their commands and desires.

Collars can come in various forms, ranging from simple leather or fabric collars to more elaborate designs with metal hardware or embellishments. The collar can be worn during BDSM play or as part of the submissive's everyday life as a constant reminder of their submission to their dominant.

Collaring ceremonies are often performed in BDSM relationships as a formal way to mark the beginning of a submissive and dominant dynamic. During a collaring ceremony, the submissive partner is presented with a collar by their dominant partner, often in front of witnesses, and the collar is placed around the submissive's neck as a sign of ownership and commitment.

It is important to note that BDSM and collaring are consensual activities that require clear communication, trust, and mutual respect between all parties involved.

Are fashion collars and BDSM collars connected in any way?

While fashion collars and BDSM collars may share a similar appearance, they are not necessarily connected. Fashion collars are primarily worn as a fashion accessory to enhance an outfit, while BDSM collars are used as a symbol of ownership and submission within BDSM relationships.

That being said, some people may wear a collar for both fashion and BDSM purposes. In these cases, the collar may have a specific design or meaning that is important to the wearer and may reflect both their personal style and their BDSM identity.

It's important to note, however, that BDSM collars should always be worn with the understanding and consent of all parties involved, and should not be used simply as a fashion statement. BDSM collars hold significant meaning within BDSM relationships and should be treated with respect and care.

Can a dominant wear collars?

Yes, a dominant can wear a collar in BDSM play or as part of their personal style. While collars are often associated with submission, there is no rule that says only submissives can wear them.

In some BDSM dynamics, the dominant may wear a collar as a symbol of their ownership or control over their submissive partner. Additionally, a dominant may wear a collar to signal their status as a dominant within the BDSM community or as a personal fashion statement.

It's important to note that the use of collars in BDSM play is highly personal and can vary greatly between individuals and relationships. The meaning and symbolism behind a collar are often agreed upon and discussed between partners before being implemented. As with all BDSM activities, communication, consent, and mutual respect are essential for a healthy and safe experience.

Can I wear a collar I bought from the pet shop?

While collars purchased from pet shops are designed for pets and may look similar to BDSM collars, it is not recommended to wear them for BDSM purposes.

Pet collars are designed for animals and are typically made from materials that are not suitable for human skin, such as nylon or plastic. Additionally, pet collars may not be adjustable enough to fit a human neck properly, which can cause discomfort or injury.

Furthermore, wearing a pet collar for BDSM purposes can be seen as disrespectful to the BDSM community and to the concept of BDSM collars as a symbol of consent and ownership.

If you are interested in wearing a BDSM collar, it is best to purchase one specifically designed for human use from a reputable BDSM retailer. These collars are made from materials that are safe and comfortable for human skin, and are designed to fit properly and securely around the neck.

 

Whether you’re looking for a collar as a fashion statement or if BDSM is your thing, Evie Rose Lingerie has something to suit your needs. If you do stumble across an attractive collar at the pet shop, remember that these collars are made for pet and may not be suitable for your needs. However, if it’s the reverse and you’re looking for a collar for your fur baby, we high recommend Puparazzi Haus. You can find all your pet accessories and more here, we have used them ourselves  on many occasions (for pets only).

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